Get Free From the Narcissistic Person in Your Life
Steffi Seefeld's 7 Myths Mini-Course
This mini-course holds the seven beliefs that kept me tied to the narcissistic people in my life for too many years, and how I took each one apart so I could finally be free of them, without the doubt, without the guilt, and without second-guessing myself every night at 2am.
I know these seven myths from the inside, because I believed every one of them.
I researched the childhood wounds, I explained myself for the tenth time, I waited for the change that was always about to come. What finally set me free was not more information about narcissism. It was learning that it was never my job to rescue them, and feeling that in my body and not only in my head. The pull they had over me is gone now.
Since then I have walked more than 1,200 women through this work in workshops, retreats and programs, and I have taught, facilitated and spoken for Summit, Kajabi, YPO, EO, The Portal and Deloitte.
For the first time, I put all seven myths into one short mini-course, so you can stop wondering if you're the crazy one and start trusting yourself again.
Summit • Kajabi • YPO • EO • The Portal • Deloitte
This myth-busting mini-course will help you:
...and feel it land in your body, not only in your mind.
↓ Keep scrolling to see each of the 7 lessons ↓
If you're going back and forth about staying, leaving, or going back to a narcissistic partner, start with these four lessons.
"But they're so passionate and driven. You can't walk away from the best thing that ever happened to you."
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When it's good, it's sooo good, and that is exactly the hook. Your body wasn't lying about what it felt. But intensity is not intimacy, drama is not drive, and in this lesson you learn to feel the difference in your own body and what to look for.
"What if they change after I leave?"
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You did all the work and planted all the seeds through all that pain, and the thought of someone else harvesting it is unbearable. This lesson shows you what real change looks like, and what this fear has been protecting you from feeling.
"They were born this way, so I should have compassion and can't leave."
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The more you understand their wounds, the more trapped you feel. Here we take apart the quiet equation underneath, the one that says understanding them obligates you to stay.
"They're doing better than I am, and it's killing me."
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You see them smiling, traveling, with someone new. You are comparing your healing to their performance, and those were never the same thing. This lesson is where that comparison reflex starts to let go.
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If the narcissistic person in your life is a parent, a sibling, a friend or a boss, and leaving isn't simple, start with these three lessons.
"But they're so passionate and driven. You can't walk away from the best thing that ever happened to you."
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When it's good, it's sooo good, and that is exactly the hook. Your body wasn't lying about what it felt. But intensity is not intimacy, drama is not drive, and in this lesson you learn to feel the difference in your own body and what to look for.
"What if they change after I leave?"
________
You did all the work and planted all the seeds through all that pain, and the thought of someone else harvesting it is unbearable. This lesson shows you what real change looks like, and what this fear has been protecting you from feeling.
"They were born this way, so I should have compassion and can't leave."
________
The more you understand their wounds, the more trapped you feel. Here we take apart the quiet equation underneath, the one that says understanding them obligates you to stay.
What's included:
- All 7 myths, taught in full, in short lessons of 5 to 15 minutes each
- Every lesson in video and in audio, so you can sit with it or listen on a walk
- A somatic practice including the breath, the grounding, the small things you can do when your nervous system is spinning. This is the part almost every other course skips, and it's why the shift of this course actually lasts.
- A "Time to Reflect" section so you integrate it into actual results in your life, and not just hear or watch about it.
- Lifetime access, so you can come back to a myth months from now when you need it, because this is a journey.
$7
What women say after doing this work with me
In their own words, shared with permission. 👇
Working with Steffi completely opened my eyes, because it wasn't just someone telling me to 'just leave.' She helped me actually understand why I was stuck. It wasn't just mindset coaching, it was nervous system work, it was somatic healing, it was feel-it-in-your-body healing. Now I feel so much more grounded and confident. I'm way better at setting boundaries without feeling guilty after. I don't default to people-pleasing to keep the peace anymore. I actually feel protective over myself, and that's a really good thing.
— Liv M.
Course participant
I finally, finally, finallyI trust my voice, my boundaries, and what I want to call into my life. This work is transformational for anyone who's ready.
— Katie F.
Course participant
I was doing a lot of inner work already, reading, journaling, meditation, but I was still stuck in the same patterns, like they were engrained in my nervous system. Working with Steffi shifted everything because it went beyond understanding into something I could actually feel in my body. It's like a spiritual gym. I don't even fully know how to explain it, but it works. Now I have a much stronger sense of self. I'm more vocal about what I need. I process emotions in a healthy way. Nothing in my external world necessarily changed, but how I exist within it completely has.
— Alex G.
Course participant
I finally let go of my people pleaser, what a big relief and shift in everything: the relationships at work and with my partner. Working with Steffi really made me believe in myself for the first time.
— Dr. Yvonne L.
Course participant
Oh my God, I am blown away. I feel like you were telling my story. Thank you, you have already made a difference in my life.
— Nicole H.
Course participant
This is the reassurance that it's not in your head. It made me think about more stories, more events that supported the fact that my relationship was not healthy. I'm starting to see patterns in my life and back to my childhood, the full circle of where I was, where I got to, and where I'd like to be after this.
— Emma J.
Course participant
If even one of these seven beliefs made your stomach drop while you were reading, that's the one still running you.
This mini-course will show you how to put it down.
Seven dollars, and it's yours for life.
If you are in immediate danger, this course is not an emergency resource. Please contact a domestic violence support line in your country. In the US, the National Domestic Violence Hotline is available 24/7 at 1-800-799-7233.
