THE $47 MYTH BUSTING COURSE
Busting the 7 myths that kept you stuck to set you free now
You just felt one myth come loose. Imagine your life when all seven let go.
You watched the free myth, and something shifted in your body that all the books and reels never quite managed. That wasn't an accident, and it wasn't only in your head. This is where the other six let go too, and where you get your life back.
→ BUST ALL 7 MYTHS — $47
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Steffi has taught, facilitated, and spoken for:
Summit · Kajabi · YPO · EO · The Portal · Deloitte
And done this work with women who lead, including a clinical psychologist, several CEOs, and an author and speaker. (See their words below.)
When all seven beliefs
stop running you.
You stop going over the same conversation, because you no longer need him to finally understand.
Your body stops bracing, because it learns the danger isn't in the room anymore.
You stop trying and chasing to be the exception, because you know there isn't one to earn.
The relationships you're drawn to start to feel like solid ground you can stand on, instead of a current pulling you under.
HOW THIS WORKS
You've already taken Step 1.
STEP 1: You busted your first myth, free.
You watched the free video and felt a belief you'd been carrying start to let go. That was the doorway, and you've already walked through it. You know how this works now, because you felt it, not because someone told you it would.
STEP 2: Bust the other six.
Inside the course, we go through all seven myths the way I set many women free live, in short lessons of a few minutes each, in video and audio, with somatic practices woven through so each one lands in your body and not only your understanding. The six still holding you are usually the quiet ones doing the most work to keep you tied in.
STEP 3: Live free from them.
This is the part worth getting still for. When the seven beliefs stop running you, the energy that went into managing and explaining and hoping comes home to you, and you get to spend it on your own life. Your sleep improves, your intuition comes back online. Intensity stops feeling like love, and calm stops feeling boring. You're still soft, still loving, still you, just no longer available to be pulled back into something that isn’t mutual or safe.
All seven beliefs keeping you stuck.
Here are all seven. Read them slowly, and notice which ones make your stomach drop, because that's a belief still running you. You don't have to do anything with what comes up. Just notice which ones land.
01
They were born this way, so I should just have compassion.
It's the belief that if they were simply wired this way, then leaving would be cruel, and your compassion obligates you to stay and keep trying. So you research the childhood, the wounds, the reasons, and the more you understand, the more trapped you feel, because now you have a thesis for why you can't go.
Here's the part that catches most empathetic women. The honest answer about where narcissism comes from is more complicated and more fascinating than a simple yes or no, and the early soil it grows in is often the very same soil that grew the empath in you. Same house, different outcomes. But understanding the why was never the thing keeping you stuck. The hidden hook is the quiet equation underneath it, the one that says understanding obligates you to stay, help, love. Inside the course we take that equation apart, in your head and then in your body, so that compassion stops functioning as a leash.
02
But they're so driven and passionate that means something.
It's the belief that something that felt that electric had to be real, had to mean something, and walking away from it means walking away from the most alive you've ever felt. So you keep reaching back toward the intensity, reading it as proof of love.
And here's the recognition that tends to land hard. Your body wasn't lying to you about what it felt. It really was flooded, really was lit up. But intensity is not intimacy, and what felt like chemistry was often your nervous system in activation, and the two feel almost identical. Almost. Learning to feel the difference in your own body, so calm stops reading as boring and activation stops reading as love, is exactly the work the somatic practices inside the course are built for. This is the one that has to be felt, not just understood, which is why it's in here.
03
They wouldn't do that me, I'm different.
Early on you heard how they talked about the ex, the business partner, the friend who was "crazy" or "obsessed" or "so needy." And some part of you clocked it. And then they made you feel like the exception, the chosen one, not like the others, and the clocking went quiet.
Let me tell you about a first date, because you might recognize the shape of it. A man said, “his stupid ex-girlfriend”, was: “so annoying, she wanted me to call her all the time, she was so jealous." That's not vulnerability. That's contempt, and contempt is never selective. You already know, reading this, where that sentence was always going to lead. The harder question is the one underneath, the one this myth is really made of: why did the part of you that clocked it go quiet, and what in you needed so badly to be the exception? That's the thread we actually pull inside the course, because seeing his pattern is the easy half. Seeing the one in you that volunteered is where the freedom is.
04
What if they change after I leave.
This is the fear that keeps people stuck longer than the relationship did. That you'll walk away from the best thing that ever happened to you, and someone else will harvest the fruit you so painfully planted and watered, and it won't be fair.
So when the hoovering comes, with "I've changed, I went to therapy, I did a retreat, I'm a new man," your heart wants to believe it, partly because you've longed to hear those exact words for so long. But here's the line that tends to stop women cold: Saying the words is not change, having insight is not change, hitting rock-bottom on a weekend is not change. Real change is consistent behavior over a long time, especially when no one is watching. You probably already sense that. What this myth is really protecting is harder to look at, the fantasy that you were the one who could finally inspire the transformation, and the grief waiting underneath if you let that fantasy go. Inside the course we walk into that grief on purpose, with the body support to actually move through it, because that's the part that finally lets you stop waiting on the zero.one percent.
05
Once they finally understand, it will click.
You've had the same conversation ten times. You've explained it calmly, you've cried it, you've written it out, you've sent the book, you've suggested the therapist. And somehow you're back at the same fight wondering, didn't we already clear this?
It's not a comprehension problem, and that's the reframe that changes everything. They understand you fine. They just don't internalize it, because internalizing your reality would mean tolerating being wrong, and that touches a shame the whole structure is built to avoid. Notice the same person can master business, master strategy, master a golf swing. It was never that they couldn't get it. So if explaining was always going to fail, the real question becomes why you kept explaining, what it cost you, and what you were hoping the tenth conversation would finally give you that the first nine didn't. That's the thread inside, and it's the one that lets you finally put the explaining down instead of just being told to.
06
They're genuinely a good person underneath it all.
This one survives because they can be charming, generous in public, funny, high-performing, the person everyone calls "such a good guy."
So here's the better question, the one that tends to land quietly and stay: How do they treat people when there is nothing to gain? Arthur Brooks talks about deal friends and real friends. Deal friends are transactional, there's a benefit, there's access. Real friends are, in his word, "useless," meaning there's no leverage in it, just closeness and trust. So ask honestly how many real, useless friends this person actually has. You probably already know the number, and it probably already told you something you didn't want to know. The work isn't proving they're not good. Some part of you can see it now. The work is what happens in you when you stop arguing their goodness in your own head, because that argument has been doing a job for you, and we look honestly at what that job was inside the course.
07
They're doing better than I am, and it's killing me.
You see them out there. Smiling, traveling, someone new, looking upgraded. And a part of you thinks they're fine, they moved on, maybe I was the problem.
Pause. You are comparing your healing to their performance, and those are not the same thing. A narcissistic person cannot regulate their own feelings, so the only way they have through an ending is a new source of supply, and it matters far less to them who it comes from than that it comes at all. They are not ahead of you. They are repeating the pattern. There's an old image of a narcissistic person as a worm in a black hole, miserable no matter who fills the void. Knowing that helps for about a day. What it doesn't touch is the part of you that still measures your worth against their highlight reel, the comparison reflex itself, which has roots that go back further than this relationship. That reflex is the actual thing keeping you up, and retraining it is body work, not a fact you can read once. It's woven through the course for exactly that reason.
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Here's everything inside the course
All 7 myths, taught in full. Short lessons between five and 15 minutes each, in both video and audio, so you can watch when you want to be still or just listen on a walk. The free one you watched is a taste of how every lesson is built.
Somatic practices woven throughout. The breath, the grounding, the small things you can do in your own body when a myth has its hooks in you and your nervous system is spinning. This is the part almost every other course skips, and it's the part that made the free myth land in your body and not only your head. It's also my whole difference as a coach.
A "Time to Reflect" Section for EVERY MONTH. Journaling and reflection prompts so each one has somewhere to go in you instead of staying abstract.
Lifetime ACCESS. Come back to a myth six months or even years from now, when it finally clicks open in a way it didn't the first time.
The Course COMMUNITY. Not a fifty-thousand-person free-for-all. A space where women walking the same road read and share with each other in the comment sections, in their own time, with no pressure to perform.
LET'S TALK ABOUT WHY
This is Only $47.
Most of what I teach lives in deeper, longer work with women one step further down the road. I made this reachable on purpose, because the first step shouldn't be the expensive one.
Why give you this for the price of a nice dinner?
Because this is the important opening door you need today, and it’s not the whole house.
The deeper work I do, the full course with the core patterns and types and a lot more somatic practices, plus the one-on-one support, that's where most of this teaching comes from, and it's priced accordingly. But the first step into it should be reachable for the woman who is exhausted, maybe rebuilding her finances after everything this cost her, and not in a position to commit to something big yet.
You've already stepped through the doorway once, for free. I don't want forty-seven dollars to be the reason the other six myths stay in place. It's not cheap because it's thin. I made it accessible on purpose.
ENROLL NOW — $47But don't only take my word for it.
What real women say, in their own words. (All shared with permission.)
Busting these myths is like a bright flash light onto all the shit I kept believing. Wow - this is a game changer.
— Kristen B.
Course participant
I’m so glad I no longer give my power to them. Thank you Steffi.
— Chanelle A.
Course participant
Steffi is speaking the truth I didn’t want to hear. But with her kindness and humor during this difficult time I am able to see it so clearly now and move on.
— Alex G.
Course participant
I can’t believe I had these beliefs and that I thought that that’s going to get me what I want. Thank you for lifting the veil.
— Lorena M.
Course participant
This is for you if:
- ✓ You've already felt one myth loosen its power and you want the rest of the ground to shift too.
- ✓ You're not even fully sure it was abuse, and you're tired of going back and forth about it in your own head.
- ✓ You know plenty about narcissism already and you're still stuck, and you're starting to suspect more information isn't the answer.
- ✓ You want the work to land in your body, not just your mind, because the understanding alone never quite freed you.
- ✓ You're willing to actually show up to it, the way you showed up to the free myth.
This is not for you if:
- — You want me to tell you he'll change if you just love him better. I won't, because it wouldn't be honest, and that hope is one of the seven things keeping you stuck.
- — You're looking for one-on-one private work with me. This isn't that. This is the doorway, and the deeper personal work is available later if and when you want it.
You're still in physical danger. Your safety comes first, and this course is not the first step. Please reach out to a domestic violence resource where you are before anything else.
Ready to finally put these down?
You felt the first one go. You know it's real, because you felt it in your body and not just your mind. The other six are waiting, and so is the version of you on the far side of all of them.
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If you are in immediate danger, this course is not an emergency resource. Please contact a domestic violence support line in your country. In the US, the National Domestic Violence Hotline is available 24/7 at 1-800-799-7233.
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